Discreet dating glossary

What does Not looking to change my situation mean in dating?

This phrase usually means the person wants a separate connection but does not plan to leave or restructure their existing relationship or home life.

Not looking to change my situation.

It is a boundary about expectations, not a complete description of the arrangement. A useful profile should still explain whether the person wants one meeting, occasional contact or something familiar and ongoing.

How it may appear in a profile

“Married and not looking to change my situation.”
“I want chemistry, not a new domestic life.”
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