Discreet dating glossary

What does Married but looking mean in dating?

Married but looking means a married person is seeking a dating or physical connection outside their marriage.

Married but looking.

The phrase communicates relationship status and intent but not the rules of the marriage. Profiles often add whether the person wants discretion, a one-off or an ongoing arrangement.

How it may appear in a profile

“Married but looking for occasional weekday meetings.”
“Married, settled and looking for separate chemistry.”
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