Make the intent work around Eastbourne.
BN covers a long stretch of coast, so Eastbourne should remain distinct from Brighton and inland areas.
In Eastbourne, Town Centre and Meads reflect different everyday routines. Look for a window that could recur without turning every week into an obligation, and say how much notice is normally needed.
Turn a broad intention into a workable pattern
For ongoing casual arrangements around the BN area, Ongoing and casual can coexist when frequency, contact between meetings and the right to pause are all stated clearly. The seafront and centre can support spontaneous weekends; Old Town and Hampden Park are more routine-led.
The seafront and centre can support spontaneous weekends; Old Town and Hampden Park are more routine-led.