The low-key edit · Updated 2026-11-06

How to read relationship-status fields on dating sites.

Relationship-status fields provide a quick category, but most require a short profile explanation before another adult can understand the available arrangement.

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What it means in practice.

Single and separated are not interchangeable

Single usually implies no current committed partnership; separated may retain legal or practical ties even when the relationship has ended. The distinction can affect availability and future expectations.

Attached, partnered and married vary in precision

Attached is the broadest label, partnered identifies an existing relationship and married supplies a specific legal or social status. Each can coexist with different relationship boundaries.

Open and complicated need context

Open describes permitted outside dating but not its rules. Complicated signals that a standard field fits poorly, making a concise explanation especially important.

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Which status is most accurate for marriage?+

Married is the clearest when the platform provides it.

What if no field fits?+

Choose the closest accurate option and explain the relevant distinction in the profile.

Do status fields define the desired arrangement?+

No. One-off, casual and ongoing intentions should be stated separately.

From wording to a useful conversation.

Fictional examples to illustrate the choices.

The situation

A service offers separate fields for status and intention. Choosing “married” answers one question; choosing “casual” answers another. Leaving the intention blank still leaves the reader guessing about continuity.

Wording you can adapt

Pair the accurate status with a short intention: “Married; open to occasional repeat meetings.”

What this clears up

Use the fields according to the service’s definitions. If its categories do not describe your situation, a plain-language sentence may help, but it does not override eligibility restrictions.

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