Discreet dating glossary

What does See where it goes mean in dating?

See where it goes means the person does not want to define the outcome before meeting and prefers to judge it from the chemistry.

See where it goes.

It can indicate genuine flexibility or avoidance of a direct answer. Context matters: availability, stated boundaries and whether the profile mentions one-off or recurring meetings make the phrase easier to interpret.

How it may appear in a profile

“Let’s meet for a drink and see where it goes.”
“No fixed script—happy to see where the chemistry goes.”
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