Discreet dating glossary

What does Icebreaker mean in dating?

An icebreaker is the opening question or message used to start a dating conversation.

Icebreaker.

The strongest icebreakers refer to something specific in the profile and are easy to answer. A generic greeting can work, but it gives the other person little reason to choose that conversation.

How it may appear in a profile

“Your ideal free afternoon sounded good—where would you spend it?”
“Are weekday or weekend plans more realistic for you?”
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